Identity: What Did I Miss?

I’m staring at the ID card I’ve had for several years. This card tells everyone Mary is a permanent employee for a state government agency and assigns an ID number. It also contains one of the few ID or driver’s license photos in which I don’t appear to have woken from a two-day drunk. ID stands for “identity,” but you wouldn’t learn much about me from the plastic rectangle that is clipped to a piece of wardrobe Monday through Friday.Read more

Talk Amongst YourSELF

“Talking to yourself is okay. Answering back is risky.”  ~Brian Spellman~ Who among us does not talk to self? Can I see a show of hands? No? What do you say to yourself or ask yourself? Do you answer? I fully admit I talk to myself daily. Barring details, my self-talk isn’t always positive. I tend to beat up the inner Mary J, rather than give her positive affirmations about the good things in her life. Is this the normalRead more